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Joanne Brokaw's avatar

I"ve been thinking about instituting a virtual "tea time" once a week - I open the zoom room, put on some soft music, ppl show up with their warm beverage of choice, and we take half an hour to just sit together and relax. You know what? I'm going to make that happen.

Lori B. Duff's avatar

You’d better send me that zoom link, girlfriend.

Jill G. Hall's avatar

I'm in. Let's start today! I'll set my timer and be thinking of you at 3:00.

Christopher Manson's avatar

Three P.M. is when I do my regular "midday check." Going well so far.

Caroline OConnell's avatar

Great post. I do take a short nap in the afternoon and my body loves it. Also, having a passel of fab felines around helps me slow down.

Lori B. Duff's avatar

Yeah, having a passel of lawyers around doesn’t do me a whole lot of good :-)

Christine Heinrichs's avatar

I try to quit by 3. Actually, I try to work less, but the tasks pile up, and soon I’m working all day. I write, so I enjoy what I do, but it’s indistinguishable from Work. And I do knit! As one of the speakers at last year’s Shetland Wool Week said, “Ya canna be hand idle.”

Lori B. Duff's avatar

I love that! I certainly canna be hand idle. I get so much knitting done during zooms….Shetland Wool Week sounds like a dream.

Renee Schafer Horton's avatar

From a fellow Type- A person (you do know the term walking pneumonia was invented b/c WOMEN JUST KEEP GOING), I say: Amen to 3 p.m. Great post.

Kate Mahar's avatar

To Joanne Brokaw: Me! Me! Please invite me! And to dear Lori: Another truth-telling, utterly relatable essay -- even for an old lady like me who has been retired for six years (and no, I didn't get out early at all). We Americans have a hard time admitting to the value of doing nothing. We will not be worthless slobs if we aren't engaged in work or any activity deemed "productive" 24/7. Tea and knitting sounds delightful. For me, currently, it's drawing and painting watercolor postcards. Love you, girlfriend!